Are you married or getting married soon, in your journey please be conscious of the most difficult things to do today is maintaining a healthy home, most marriages are at the bringe of collapse while many home have collapsed with no hope of coming back.
Separation or divorce as we called it is not new in marriage but the question still remains why will marriage crashes ?
it is ways sad to hear homes breaking few days after wedding, what happened to the affection and love till eternity agreement, the only that that should separate marriage is death but it is quite unfortunate that couples are separating simply because inability to maintain a healthy home or avoid untimely death
Some school of thought posits that the animousity that lead to eventual break up in marriage often starts during courtship and some on the wedding night.
Yes the married couple have different background, exposure and understanding of life as well as approaches. to issues but the most important thing that can sustain a home irrespective of the aforementioned factor is understanding, tolerance and love . where love exists tolerance work
Here are five tips why marriage may not work and if you can work on this tips and other you may not be guarantee a perfect marriage but a healthy home that is devoid of serious conflict that could lead to divorce is sure
Unconditional love is rare, but it is the most important factor in marriage, let your love be pure and natural once it is attached to either physical or material things, it is not love because the moment those attractions diminishes or fade away it is obvious that the love goes down with it so for you to have a healthy home let your affection be pure, unconditional and real, anything contrary may not help in sustaining a healthy home .
The second factor that may not let the marriage work is lack of trust. believing in each other is important and help in maintaining a home but once the spouse began to suspect each other there is a serious problem, there have been cases when couples stalk each other, monitor movements, check phones and others, this are signs of immaturity and lack of trust ,some of this are form of abuse that will definitely have phycological effects on spouse and this may even lead to untimely death or separarion through divorce
Money makes the world go round, failure in one’s responsibility to provide for the family is another great factor that may lead to breakup, financing a a home is not limited to the man alone , they duo are helpmates they should be open and transparent to each other ( though not always easy) but to a very large extent, the financial burden should not be place on husband or wife’s shoulder, it should be jointly solved especially when the husband is not buoyant enough to provide everything needed for the family.
Sex enhances form of intimacy, failure to have the best of it is inimical to sustainability of a healthy home, there should be no special or timetable for it, each, give it to your spouse anytime , it help in good mood activation and boost friendship. Most marriages crashes today because of either lack of proper sex or over
Infidelity is another factor that may not let the marriage work, once uou are married you keep away from all other form of intimacy that may arouse suspicion from your spouse, once a spouse bis caught there will be no more trust and that can easily blead to divorce or crisis in the family.
Packaged by Mary Adeyemo
