Marriage is a life long issue, it has to do with companionship and that can only be achieved with mutual understanding and respect. Happenings in the world today shows that a lot of home are breaking because of lack of proper understanding of each other before the go into marriage.
Dating of course will give you an insight into the kind of man or woman you are dating and gives you room for better understanding of what your home will look like. This piece gives you a clue into why you should not marry some men
Men who want you because your are a virgin.
Virginity is a pride, every women wish to marry as virgins but majority of them do not have it as planned but some lucky ones are privilege to keep it and they are the target of guys on the street. Men love telling stories of how they deflowered many ladies which they consider as an life achievement, If he tells you he want you because you are a virgin. please run he may be aiming to remove that Siemens from the vagina and leave you after achieving his mission.
Men who consider your material wealth
Some men are goal diggers, they dont date girls with low profile, their target are classy and wealthy lady. especially those who through hard work and determination achieve greatness, The society gives room for younger elements who have forutunate to make wealth and they are always the target of the goal diggers , A responsible man should be able to cater for his girl , it isn’t a bad idea of the girl support or spend money on his spouse but most of those who fall into that category ended up as a cheat because of the mentality that such women is domineering or putting up attitude
Men who have no plans or idea of what they want
There are many men who have no plans about there lives. They hardly know what they want for themselves in their career or management, not to talk about Marriage itself. Ladies should avoid men like this as they can lead into a pitfall, and making everything crash at the end of the day. Marriage built on stand like this do not last, as the man will just be stagnant and be less consequential in the relationship.
Men without Job
Another category of men ladies should avoid are the men without job. How can one decide to settle for a man who has no job? Who will take the marriage responsibilities? When children start coming in, who will fend for their needs? What about the rents and other bills? Ladies should avoid men like this who will offer nothing but liability to the marriage. Hence, the marriage will crash if he is not ready for his task.
Men who is not proud to celebrate and showcase your achievements
Ladies should be vigilant and be very careful in this area. They should by all cost avoid men who are not proud of to showcase their ladies. Ladies should not settle for man will not flaunt them in public or even take them out on a date regularly. Men like that ends up avoiding them or divorcing them in the long run. Men like this damage the self esteem of their women in marriage.
Men who always respond to issues with verbal or physical Assault
Some men are aggressive and cannot settle issues without being unnecessarily violent and abusive with words. Ladies should avoid men who are always insultive, who can emotionally damage them with words. While doing that they should also avoid men that beat up their partners as this can lead to death or disability.
Men whose only passion Sex and Alchohol.
Ladies should also avoid men whose only passion are sex and alcohol. Some men have only desire for sex in marriage, that it is the only the they cherish in the relationship, they do not cherish their wife or the relationship itself. Also, some men are addicted to alcohol and nothing more in relationship, they go out in the morning and come back home drunk and useless to themselves and the family. Ladies should avoid these kind of men.
Men who idolise or rate their family members over their partners
It is good to value ones parent or siblings, but men cannot do anything without consulting their mothers, siblings which is very bad. Some men do not respect their wives but go out to get advise from third parties which will not be useful for the marriage. It will also not enhanced growth in the marriage. When it comes to decision making, some men outrightly sideline their partners, and will rather go seeking for opinion from the mother or siblings.
love is the bedrock of every relationship and any relationship where love is conditional is bound to break a genuine relationship is unconditional because if the condition is detached the love may cease to blossom.
Any man who have any of the trait or fall into categories listed above is not worthy of being called a husband so stay away from them.
